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How they behave or the attitudes they exhibit
* Being hesitant.
* Nervous laughter.
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* Providing more information and specifics than is necessary or was asked for.
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In-person behavior clues:
* Touching chin, covering the mouth, or rubbing brows.
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* Pupils narrow.
* Playing with hair.
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* Avoidance of eye contact, eyes glancing to the right, staring past you or down, or turning away from you while they are talking.
* Rigid or fidgeting.
* Slouching posture.
* Unnatural or limited arm and hand movements.
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* May place a barrier such as a desk or chair in front of self.
* Sweating, even if it isn't a warm day.
* Saying "no" several times.
Your own inner cues:
You sense something is not right. Explanations do not feel enough for you. You feel confused, you find yourself squinting or angling your head. You feel a block or a wall between you and the other.
In Internet dating, or any kind of dating for that matter, keep your anxiety down, your head attached, and LISTEN to everything your date tells you in every way. People tell you about themselves constantly, from the very first second of contact. You just have to be willing to hear it. Not only do they tell you by what they do say, they tell you by what they don't say.
Many of these cues can come from simple distraction or nervousness, not deceit. New daters have plenty of reasons to be anxious. Signs of lying differ from one person to another. Don't let your own nervousness force a jump to wrong conclusions. Give your date a break and take some time.
Often, Cyber daters move too quickly to the phone and/or a face to face meeting. Gone is the golden opportunity to safely ask questions and study answers slowly and over time. Moving to face-to-face or skin-to-skin vastly increases tension and anxiety, which complicate clear thinking and judgment.
With online dating, you have a tremendous advantage over meeting immediately flesh-to-flesh: You have a written record of what the other tells you. Make use of it! Take your time and get to know your potential Sweetheart the old-fashioned way - through writing!